Thomas A. Parker, DDS, 89, passed away peacefully with his adoring family by his side at his home of 40 years in Hollywood, Florida, on Friday, September 30, 2022.
Thomas Parker—widely known by his family, friends, and community as Tom, Dr. Tom, Uncle Tom, and Daddy Tom—was born at home at the Carter Oil Camp in Seminole, Oklahoma, on May 9, 1933, to Alton and Frida Parker. The third of five children, he is survived by his two brothers, Ace and Clay.
Tom’s admirable work ethic started at age five when his mother gave him his first job— sweeping. He credits his mother with developing his strong work ethic as his mother always applauded his good work or offered gentle guidance. This work ethic carried on for the entirety of his life. He delivered papers in Kansas City, worked in the oil fields with his father at the age of 14 (ultimately saving enough money to put himself through college), managed 60 apartments, typed mailing labels for Farms Catalog, and continued to work in the oil fields as a young man on the weekends and in the summer to put himself through dental school at University of Missouri-Kansas City.
With work comes income, and Tom never failed to share with those in need. This lifelong value started with a $5 annual donation (pooled with his brothers) to Bov’s Town Orphanage. He grew up a bird hunter, earned the nickname the Blonde Bomber for his boxing skills in the Golden Gloves, and was always the youngest in his class after skipping the third grade.
Tom and his high school sweetheart, Vernece Thompson, eloped in Arkansas to get around the twenty-one-year-old marriage requirement in Oklahoma without their parents knowing using a forged permission letter. The Thompsons and the Parkers gave their blessing after receiving a payphone call from across the street from the courthouse in Arkansas. Deborah and Stephen were soon after born. After Tom finished dental school, the family moved to Hollywood in 1957. Dr. Tom practiced dentistry for 58 years after opening his own practice. He only retired after his grandson Blake joined the practice so that Parker Dentistry could be a three-generation dental practice.
And while he was a hardworking man, he also knew the importance of time off. Tom and Vernece always took a month off during the summer to travel around the country with their children and later grandchildren, Brian, Kyle, Jonathan, Jennifer, Christopher, and Blake, where so many memories were made. It was also his dream to build a log cabin, which he did with the help of family and friends at Indian Hammock near Lake Okeechobee in 1977. Tom was a dreamer and a doer, and through hard work, he made his dreams a reality.
Tom loved his friends, family, and community. He was the PTA president at Hollywood Hills Elementary, member of the Hollywood Lion’s Club and Hollywood Kiwanis Club, founder of the Sheridan Hills Baptist Church, and member of the First Presbyterian Church of Hollywood. Tom was elected Man of the Year by the Chamber of Commerce and led his Kiwanis Club to number one in the state.
Golf replaced his love of hunting, and he was a member of Orangebrook Golf Club of Hollywood for SO years. He twice won the Goodtimers Club Championship and played golf all around the world.
After the passing away of his first wife Vernece in 2002, Tom found love again in 2004 when his daughter-in-law Honi introduced him to Shari Vaughn. They were married later that year and have shared so much love and created a beautiful assemblage of memories in the last 18 years.
Tom lived life to the fullest, and along his extraordinary journey, he touched the lives of so many people. There will only ever be one Thomas Parker, and he will be dearly missed but fondly remembered by all who had the blessing of having him in their lives.
The public visitation is scheduled for Friday, October 7, 2022, from 5:00 – 8:00 PM and the funeral service on Saturday, October 8th, 2022, at 1:00 PM held at Boyd-Panciera University Drive Chapel located at 1600 N. University Drive, Pembroke, Pines, FL 33024. A private entombment will follow the service.
For those unable to attend the service, the family is offering LIVE streaming of the service on Saturday, October 8th, 2022 beginning at 1:00 PM. The link to attend LIVE is on the Boyd-Panciera Family Funeral Care Facebook page at: BOYD-PANCIERA FAMILY FUNERAL CARE
In Lieu of Flowers, the family suggests donations to the Kiwanian Scholarship Fund, 5837 Rodman Street Hollywood, FL 33023 or to Sheridan House Family Ministries, 1700 S. Flamingo Rd, Davie, FL 33325, (954-583-1552) https://sheridanhouse.kindful.com
Funeral Arrangements Entrusted to Boyd-Panciera Family Funeral Care, University Drive Chapel.
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Jim & Marilyn Foster Silvernale
October 3, 2022, 10:13 pm
We will miss you Tom. You were by my brothers side when he got hit by a garbage truck in 1964 comforting him. You pierced my ears 48 years ago with a cube of ice and a needle and thread. So many precious memories. We affectionally called you stomper. What a dancer you were. Sending lots of love from the Foster-Silvernale family.
Jill Parker-Kastanek
October 4, 2022, 2:26 pm
Uncle Tom always had a huge smile and a great laugh. When I think of him, that is what I see! He was always so kind to me and I remember riding a ski chair in Steamboat with him when I was 12 and he was telling me about this fantastic new place called DISNEY WORLD and EPCOT CENTER! He always encouraged young people to become dentists! Lol! He was a great Uncle and man. I will miss him very much. He would come to Wyoming around his and his brother Ace’s birthdays in May, and I’m glad I got to see him at least once a year.
GOD Bless his family and friends, we were all fortunate to have known him!
Love
Jill Parker-Kastanek
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Renee Fiquet-Freeman
October 7, 2022, 12:02 am
I am anguished I did not have more of Dr/Uncle Tom in my life but what I was privileged to see was a father/ grandfather to us all! He cared deeply for his family and his patients and was a kind and gentle healer! His loving example of healing, generosity, and sacrifice live well in his progeny and I am thankful for his life!! Thank you for doing it your way Tom Parker! It was well done! Renee Fiquet
Mike Hornreich HB
October 8, 2022, 2:39 pm
The Hollywood Boys (Steve’s pals) knew the end was near, but when Steve texted … “well boys – End of an Era. Another great man from the Greatest Generation has passed on after a valiant battle”…the Hollywood Boys all welled up tears knowing the Parker family’s breathtaking sorrow. But quickly, words and images sprang up… his ever present smile, one class act, his Great Contributions, his sweet drawl and his grace….
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Then, with so many present last night we heard such heartfelt remembrances of Dr. Tom’s impact on so many…. This morning trying to process it all, and savoring the snippet of his life story shared above, a profound sense of joy and peace pervades…Seeing the bright faces of his grandchildren and great-grands, the hope for the future abounds, and it all started back in OKLAHOMA, Tom and Vernece (we miss her too), where the waving wheat can sure smell sweet when the wind comes right behind the rain…. We’ll miss you Dr. Tom, but you’ll always be part of our best strongest and gentlest selves… and Shari, Thanks for taking such good care of him all your years together….
Shelley Addison Dagen
October 10, 2022, 12:00 pm
Dr Tom Parker,
My family went to you as our dentist when we were children.
It’s been a long time since I’ve seen you and just saw this beautiful video of your full life and family.
I worked in your office and assisted you and Dr Mautner in 1983. You were kind enough to send me for my expanded duties dental assisting certificate for which I was very thankful for. Our families knew each other and lived nearby. Back then Hollywood was a small town and everyone knew each other. Thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time of sorrow. Rest In Peace Tom Parker and say hello to all of our relatives in Heaven. You will be missed by many. ♥️