Luz was and will continue to be an inspiration, a blessing and a catalyst for needed assistance for thousands of individuals with disabilities. She helped transform how people with disabilities are perceived and treated. Thousands of families have been touched by Lucy’s purpose. We are forever grateful for the positive impact she made on everyone she met, and for those she never met. Luz led her parents to become advocates for individuals with disabilities. As a child, Luz was in the vanguard of the battle to include children and adolescents with disabilities in regular school programs in both Ohio and Florida. Her mother, Berthy, fondly remembers that “allowing Luz to attend her regular neighborhood school was a blessing for her, but even a bigger one for her classmates. Attending her neighborhood school with her non-disabled peers allowed her not only to learn and receive, but perhaps more importantly, it allowed the other students and teachers to learn from her, to understand that we are all unique, that we are all different, and that we can all learn from each other. “Not being able to speak is not the same as not having anything to say, to do, to learn, to dream …” Others learned how resilient a person with intellectual and developmental disabilities needs are in order to survive in this fallen world, and the many barriers they have to overcome in order to be accepted and included in society. Luz was, indeed, resilient and brave throughout her life and to her last breath. She was constantly overcoming many daily obstacles, while making significant contributions to improve the lives of her peers. Upon graduating from high school, Luz transitioned to opening her own art company, “Life’s Unlimited Zenith, LLC,” With her support team, Luz was able to create wonderful, vivid abstract paintings that expressed her spirit and soul. She exhibited her art work with other non-disable artist and market her artwork in the United States and worldwide. Today, many of her paintings adorn public places and offices of well-known public figures. What is most amazing about Luz is that, even while she was busy with her business, she remained deeply engaged as an advocate for the rights of persons with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
Luz personified her family’s motto: To Love, To Learn, To Share, and To Serve. She was the spirit, inspiration and driving force behind many of the programs in the State of Florida to improve the lives of people with disabilities, initiated under her good friend former Governor Jeb Bush with whom she had a very special connection. https://youtu.be/PkrOPhJut5E, https://youtu.be/9cFatWAA2RU,. Luz’s life and advocacy influenced the policies of several presidential commissions and committees, under the administration of former President George W. Bush, ensuring that people with intellectual and developmental disabilities have a “decent and dignified place in society.” She spread her message of hope with vigor and dignity through the many conferences. Her artwork was printed in all materials of the First National Economic Advancement and Financial Inclusion Summit held in DC. July 2015. The summit addressed the “financial status and barriers of individuals with disabilities that prevents their participation and full participation in the mainstream.” https://www.nationaldisabilityinstitute.org/summits/dc-summit/ She was named one of 25 exceptional Americans with Disabilities. https://www.nationaldisabilityinstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/25at25.pdf . In 2004 she represented the USA in the “8th International Congress on “Including Children with Disabilities in the Community” held in Norway. She presented on Plenary panel “Transition from school to work and Higher Education” presenting a power point presentation with the assistance of her friend Sandra Obando “My life is my message.” This still resonates today and will endure into the future.
Now that Luz has completed her life’s mission on Earth, she joins the angels, and her father Milton Aponte and grandmother Bertha De La Rosa, to eternally rest in their company. Luz leaves behind her beloved mother Berthy De La Rosa-Aponte, her brother Milton Aponte II, sister Diana Aponte-Rueda (Tomas Rueda), five nephews Ruben, Milton, Noah, Ian, Miguel and niece Giovanna, along with her aunts Diana S. De La Rosa-Miklic (Thomas), Josefa Aponte, Ada Muniz (Carlos), her uncles Mario De La Rosa (Patria Rojas), Dionisio Aponte (Nydia), Amado Aponte (Yayi) and many cousins who will deeply miss her.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to St. Boniface Catholic Church, 8330 Johnson Street, Pembroke Pines, FL 33024. Due to the restrictions, the family is offering a live video stream of the Mass beginning at 12 noon EST, http://saintboniface.us.
Due to the Coronavirus Pandemic, the family is offering a live video stream of her visitation beginning at 10:30 AM will be LIVE on the Boyd-Panciera Family Funeral Care Facebook page at:
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The family will be holding the services privately. Family and a few friends will be invited to attend mass ONLY. Funeral mass will be on Wednesday, November 25th, 12:00 PM at St. Boniface Catholic Church at 8330 Johnson Street, Pembroke Pines, FL 33024. Hollywood Memorial Gardens Cemetery, 3001 North Avenue, Hollywood, FL 33024. http://www.autismpolicyblog.com/2015/06/jeb-bush-and-developmental-disabilities.html.
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Altagracia Salas
November 25, 2020, 2:29 pm
My thoughts and prayers to Berthy and the family. It was a great pleasure to know Lucy. I am sure Milton is smiling in heaven with his dear angel.
Blessings to the entire family. May Lucy Rest In Peace.
Milton Gedallovich
November 25, 2020, 3:04 pm
Cuanto sentimos por su pérdida irreparable. Jason y yo lo sentimos. Lucy la está cuidando Milton en el cielo.
Blanca Bernal
November 25, 2020, 3:27 pm
We are so sorry, please receive our condolence and our feeling of pain for your lose. Lucy will be our Light (Luz in spanish) on the sky. Romero Garcia Family from Venezuela and Colombia.
Gaye Hirz
November 25, 2020, 3:56 pm
This is a beautiful tribute to Lucy’s life. And provides me the context to understand your love and your grief. I know it will not be easy without her in your life. I am here for you Berthy and so is our Soaring Spirits Regional Group. Sending love and hugs… Gaye
Irma Olmedo
November 25, 2020, 5:00 pm
Te acompano en tu dolor, Berty. Se lo mucho que amabas a Lucy y cuidabas por ella. Ahora que descanse en paz con Milton y tu sigas adelante como puedas. Un abrazo de Irma
Verónica Harrell-James
November 25, 2020, 5:26 pm
Berthy,
Sending our prayers and heartfelt sympathy to the Aponte Family in the passing of your dear Lucy. May our Lord welcome her into heaven with her Father Milton Aponte, until you shall see them both again. Wishing you God’s Peace and Blessings in the days ahead.
With our Love,
Keith & Veronica James
& Family
Ita Santiago
November 25, 2020, 5:33 pm
Prayers for continued strength daily because I know Lucy will be in your thoughts daily. Sharing with the entire family this date of Nov. 20 for my Son Hector was taken home to be with Jesus also last yr. We miss them daily and we caring them in our hearts always. Gods Grace continue to bless all of you. Much love Ita
Sandra Upright
November 25, 2020, 11:04 pm
This tribute to Lucy is beautiful. Thank you for sharing part of her life.
Sandy Upright – Soaring Spirits Regional Group
Julie McGinty
November 26, 2020, 6:09 pm
My greatest condolences to Luz’ mother, brother and extended family. I knew Luz as a young student at the Quest Center and she left a lasting impression on me and so many others. Her sweet and brave spirit spread joy and inspiration to all who knew her. Her life will always remain a beacon for others as an example of the unlimited potential of all human beings. She is surely basking in her reward for a life well lived.
Julie McGinty