It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Shirley Louise Munson our beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and sister. Throughout her long life she embodied the Golden Rule and touched many with her empathy, love, and faith. She was a person of understated strength who remained calm in the eye-of-the-storm and was the center of gravity for a large, extended family. Shirley was born in 1931 in Detroit, Michigan the first child of James and Mildred Flack. But most of her early life was spent in New York City and its boroughs where she graduated from Andrew Jackson High School, St. Albans in 1949 and subsequently attended Hunter College. Young Shirley was a gifted sketch artist and illustrator but chose to set aside that pursuit in favor of raising a family. It was in high school that mutual friends introduced Shirley to her future husband Robert R. Munson, the son of George and Wilhelmina Munson of Jamaica Long Island. The couple were married in 1951 and temporarily settled in Alabama where Robert was an Army Private stationed at Camp Rucker. There the couple would celebrate the birth of their first son, Robert (Bobby). The young family soon resettled into a home that Robert built in Massapequa Long Island where they would celebrate the births of Gordon, Donald, and Timothy. In the early 60s the growing family followed other relatives to South Florida with a menagerie of horses and other animals in tow; including the infamous but beloved pony Rusty. Shirley and her family settled into a home site in what was at the time Fort Lauderdale but was later annexed by the growing town of Davie. There Robert built a larger home as the family expanded to six boys with the births of George and Luke. Shirley tolerated but never enjoyed the inevitable “Do you regret not having daughters?” Her motto was the Serenity Prayer; “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.” There is no doubt that she turned to the Serenity Prayer often as she raised six rambunctious –sometimes death defying– sons through the highs and lows of life. She is also remembered as a generous and caring homemaker who opened hearth and home to many of her sons’ friends. In addition to raising her family and caring for others, Shirley was the bookkeeper and ran the office of the family business; Munson’s Floor Covering. Somehow she also managed to find time to express her artistic side through the decorative arts and sewing. Sewing was a passion and Shirley was a longtime member of a South Florida sewing guild. The clothing that she made for herself was greatly admired and many sought her assistance with their own projects. Her mother-in-law Wilhelmina so cherished one of Shirley’s outfits that she requested to be laid to rest in it. Shirley was also known to turn her skills to other purposes such as upholstery for Robert’s boats, quilts, and even saddle blankets. After a life that spanned nearly a century Shirley passed away surrounded by her family at her home nestled in the green pastures that she, Robert, and the family enjoyed over several decades. She went to God with the peace and serenity of knowing that her cherished family would endure. Shirley leaves behind her brother John, six sons, beloved daughters-in-law, ten grandchildren, and sixteen great grandchildren. Her funeral mass will be held at St. David’s Catholic Church in Davie at 10:30 AM, Friday October 25th. She will then be laid to rest with her husband Robert in South Florida National Cemetery, Lake Worth. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to Cure SMA (curesma.org) to assist those impacted by spinal muscular atrophy, the condition that claimed Shirley’s infant granddaughter Caitlyn.
St. David Catholic Church
South Florida National Cemetery
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Mike Grootegoed
October 21, 2024, 3:30 pm
Aunt Shirley will always be loved and remembered. She touched me with her kindness when I was very young. It was easy to connect with her. She always had a smile, and always included the people around her with her loving charm.
She will be missed but I am certain I will see her again.
Melsedeta munroe
October 21, 2024, 8:27 pm
Sleep in peace mama Shirley we love you but God love you more.
Pascale
October 22, 2024, 3:29 pm
My condolences to the friends and family of Ms. Shirley. God promises us that one day we can see our loved ones again. “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Revelation 21:4.
Joan Grootegoed
October 23, 2024, 2:33 am
Shirley thought of me as her little sister and was one of my greatest supporters throughout my life. I Loved her dearly and will miss her.
Paulette Zamor
October 25, 2024, 4:30 pm
Hello family I would like to extend my condolences I will always called her Ms Shirley she will be missing greatly we met years ago at St David Bible study then again at multiple purpose center in the exercise class I will remember her forever I am so glad that I participate in her Birthday party may she rest in peace. Love Paulette Zamor
Sarah Divine
October 29, 2024, 8:23 pm
Shirley was a beloved patron here at the NSU Alvin Sherman Library, lighting up book and film discussions with her thoughful insights and kind spirit. While the world shut down during the pandemic, Shirley jumped right onto Zoom and stayed in touch in all the years since. She will be truly missed by her friends and librarians from Happy Hour Book Club and Friday Movie Matinee.
Ivy
October 31, 2024, 3:51 pm
I am a member of the Happy Hour Book Club that Shirley belonged to. She articulated insightful and inspiring ideas that created good conversations. She will be missed